M'sian teen's tears over Twitter

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Teen's outpouring of grief online over loss of chief stewardess mother attracts attention - and some netizens even mock her

A Malaysian teenager's posting on social media to her mother, chief stewardess Dora Shahila Kassim on board Malaysian Airlines MH17, has drawn the attention of netizens.

"I lost my super hero. I lost my best friend. I lost my whole life," 15-year-old Diyana Yazeera posted on Friday as she thought of her mother.

She had been posting a series of heartbreaking messages to her mother on Instagram and Twitter.

Ms Dora, 47, was one of two chief stewardesses on Malaysia Airlines flight MH17, which crashed in Ukraine near the Russian border on Thursday.

"Mummy, it's so hard to digest it all. You were my strength but now that you're gone, who is? I love you but Allah loves you more.

"Remember that I'm always here, sending you my prayers. I'll see you soon, Mum. I love you," Diyana wrote on Instagram on Friday, reported New Straits Times.

The student at Tunku Kurshiah College, Seremban, had taken to Instagram and Twitter via her handle @DiyanaYazeera to express her grief.

"You were the one who took charge of everything. You were the strongest among all of us.

"You gave me everything that I needed and not what I wanted. You stood firm on your own grounds. You gave life to the house. You're my fun, hip Mummy. You're a fighter. You're a giver. You're a lover. You stepped up to the challenge.

"You were my everything. Your departure hit me hard... I'm sorry I couldn't grant your wish of taking you to my graduation day. But I know you'll be up there watching. I know you're here and you can see me but its devastating that I can't see you.

"No matter the situation, you're the most wonderful mother in the world. Have a nice long rest, Mum."

Reflecting on her loss, she posted on Twitter: "She was my perfection. Without her now, all starts crumbling down to a complete disaster." (sic)


But even as her posts got more attention on Twitter, it also attracted negative comments from some users.

User @AdammHaikall tweeted "weh weh weh weh weh", followed by crying emoticons - and it was re-tweeted by two others.

Diyana lashed back, writing: "None of you know how it feels. So don't b******* in my face saying that you do."

And to some offering conspiracy theories, she wrote "Tolong la jangan ("Please do not" in Malay) make any false speculations about MH17. If you don't know anything, might as well shut up."

Some of her friends and relatives came to her defence. Twitter user Kat wrote: "Before you ever think of hurting @DiyanaYazeera, step in line and try to go through me first."

DK wrote: "Don't disturb my dearest cousin. This is a warning."

Mummy, it's so hard to digest it all. You were my strength but now that you're gone, who is? I love you but Allah loves you more.

- Diyana Yazeera wrote on Instagram


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'I'll take care of you all'

The young boy bravely consoled his grandfather as they reflected on the death of the boy's father, air steward Sanjid Singh Sandhu (above), who was on Flight MH17.

"Dadaji, don't be sad. Your son's gone, but this son's here. I'll take care of you all."

Those were the words uttered to his grandfather by 10-year old Hans Singh Sandhu, son of Mr Sanjid, reported liberal news portal The Malaysian Insider.

Hans's grandfather, Mr Jijar Singh, 71, recalled these words when Bukit Gelugor MP Ramkarpal Singh and Batu Kawan MP Kasturi Patto visited him and his wife Jagjit Kaur, 73, at their house in Penang's Alma yesterday.

Holding back tears, Mr Jijar said Hans, who lives in Kuala Lumpur with his mother, had told him this over the phone after the news of the crash broke out.

Mr Jijar now hopes that Mr Sanjid's body will be found and taken home to Malaysia for a proper funeral.


He said he was informed that his son's passport was among the first to be found, unburnt and intact, amid the wreckage.

"We hope his body will be found like that," he said.

Mr Jijar added that Mr Sanjid is better known among his relatives and community as Bobby. He got the nickname when he was a boy because the maid who looked after him in the 70s liked the hit Hindi movie Bobby. Mr Jijar also expressed sympathy for families of victims of MH370, which went missing in March and has yet to be found.

"At least I know my son's body is somewhere there, but they (relatives of Flight MH370 victims) have been in limbo for months," he said.

"Why is this happening to MAS (Malaysia Airlines)?" he asked.

Mr Sanjid, 41, had swopped flights to work on flight MH17 that crashed with 298 people. His stewardess wife, Madam Tan Bee Geok, 43, had swopped out of MH370, which vanished while en route from Kuala Lumpur to Beijing on March 8


Malaysian Prime Minister Mohd Najib Tun Razak

I personally share the grief of the families of those on board #MH17. My step-grandmother was one of the passengers.

British Prime Minister David Cameron

Just spoken to (Germany's) Chancellor Merkel. Both of us are concerned by limited access to the #MH17 site. Putin must do more.

Pop star Katy Perry

"So INCREDIBLY sad to hear that there were 100 volunteers for @UNICEF on flight #MH17 Sending our prayers to all the families effected" (sic)

Port Adelaide FC

Both teams wearing black armbands today for the victims and families of #MH17

Harald Doornbos

#MH17 Ex Dutch int footballer John van 't Schip (ex-Ajax) calls for boycott of 2018 FIFA World Cup in Russia. His handle: @johnvantschip7

Ian Birrell

A child's toys, sitting in the field among the #MH17 victims. Their tiny owner still lies nearby. So very depressing

Paul Sonne

A heartbreaking story about a little boy's body from the #MH17 crash site that showed up in the Torez morgue

Nazanine Moshiri

Just passed by #Donetsk morgue. The refrigerated truck with #mh17 bodies has gone. Moved by separatists. It is not clear where?

David Luiz

My prayers and condolences to all of the families and loved ones affected by the #MH17 tragedy.

Myroslava Petsa

Just translated Dutch FM asking Poroshenko to help bring back #MH17 bodies home. It's so overwhelming. Crying in my cubicle