Use downtime in job market to prove your mettle
Use the downtime in the job market to up your self-confidence
Job statistics are grim. It is not a confidence-inspiring picture.
But a gloomy situation is when it is all the more important for you to prove your mettle and shine: Start developing executive presence.
Economist Sylvia Ann Hewlett outlines three key elements of executive presence.
These are: gravitas (how you behave or act), communication (how you speak), and appearance (how you look), said Ms Hewlett, a founding president and chief executive officer of the Centre for Talent Innovation, a non-profit think tank.
Look at the people in your inner circle
It has often been said that you are the sum total of the five people who are closest to you.
Are the people in your inner circle positive or negative?
Always be prepared
If you have an important meeting, invest time to prepare for it.
The more prepared you are, the greater your self-confidence.
Update your skills
There are times when you do not feel confident in your abilities because you have identified gaps in your skills.
Take the time to acquire the skill. Learn everything you can about the field in which you work.
Learn from failure
Do not accept failure. Use it as feedback to study the lessons learnt, so you will do better the next time.
Practise shutting down the negative voices because there is a solution to every problem.
Improve your posture
Carriage and posture are part of how you look.
It sounds like a trivial thing. But when you stand tall, you feel more confident.
Slow your speech
Most people speak too quickly.
Just slowing down the speed at which you speak signals that you are worth listening to, and that will boost your self-confidence.
Build on your successes
Set small goals you can achieve.
When you achieve them, you can set goals that are slightly bigger.
Success builds on other successes.
Create an applause list
Create a list of your accomplishments.
People can be really tough on themselves, and you are often much smarter than you give yourself credit for.
Whenever you are feeling down, take a look at the list.
Recognise that perfectionism is a myth
Cut yourself some slack and quit trying to be perfect.
When you do so, you remove self-doubt, increasing your confidence level.
Practise being assertive
Make sure that your needs are met by asking for what you need.
Do not allow others to take advantage of you, and stand up for yourself.
This article was contributed by Right Management, the global career experts within United States-listed HR consulting firm, ManpowerGroup.